Today's OneWord is "Healthy"
If we do not know, what we need then how can others know what we need. If we cannot identify our needs, do not expect them to be fulfilled. When we do not know what we want, then we move from one relationship to another relationship with the ideal that someone else can make life better for us. This type of behavior allows us to be drawn to people for need, not from a choice.
Let us look at this analogy about a dog and a tick. Ticks are parasites that live by sucking blood from warm-blooded animals. Their preferably target is a dog. Ticks bury their heads into a dog and live there happily, for however, long they choose until they are forcibly removed. If you have ever tried to remove one, it is not easy. This is what we get when we are in any type of additive relationship. Both people are feeding off each other. They both can be self-centered. They both react most of the time from the pain of their past wounds, thus draining the energy from the other person in the relationship. Many times things do not work out because one is like a tick sucking the life out of the other.
Why? They do not know what they want or have not healed those old wounds from the past.
When we are wounded, we attract people who we allow to stay until they are forcibly removed. You know the saying, "hurting people will hurt people." When adults are not able to communicate their needs, they will respond with behaviors like resentment, tantrums, and angry. Then when they react inappropriately to our outburst, we want to blame them. Many times, we want out, but cannot get out. It is easier to stay. We would rather stay in the pain than deal with healing our past wounds.
It is time to stop allowing people from sucking the life from us because we do not know who we are or what we want. Start seeking the truth about who we are. When we begin to value ourselves, we will break the cycle of shame, violence, and anger. We will become the man and woman of God that only allows healthy relationships in our lives. No matter where we are in life God loves us. He wants the best for us. He wants us to be whole and healthy. To get there, we must take steps to stop letting people stay until they are forcibly removed. Allow God to tear down the walls of past wounds and help us change. We were created to be healthy!
Let us look at this analogy about a dog and a tick. Ticks are parasites that live by sucking blood from warm-blooded animals. Their preferably target is a dog. Ticks bury their heads into a dog and live there happily, for however, long they choose until they are forcibly removed. If you have ever tried to remove one, it is not easy. This is what we get when we are in any type of additive relationship. Both people are feeding off each other. They both can be self-centered. They both react most of the time from the pain of their past wounds, thus draining the energy from the other person in the relationship. Many times things do not work out because one is like a tick sucking the life out of the other.
Why? They do not know what they want or have not healed those old wounds from the past.
When we are wounded, we attract people who we allow to stay until they are forcibly removed. You know the saying, "hurting people will hurt people." When adults are not able to communicate their needs, they will respond with behaviors like resentment, tantrums, and angry. Then when they react inappropriately to our outburst, we want to blame them. Many times, we want out, but cannot get out. It is easier to stay. We would rather stay in the pain than deal with healing our past wounds.
It is time to stop allowing people from sucking the life from us because we do not know who we are or what we want. Start seeking the truth about who we are. When we begin to value ourselves, we will break the cycle of shame, violence, and anger. We will become the man and woman of God that only allows healthy relationships in our lives. No matter where we are in life God loves us. He wants the best for us. He wants us to be whole and healthy. To get there, we must take steps to stop letting people stay until they are forcibly removed. Allow God to tear down the walls of past wounds and help us change. We were created to be healthy!
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